How To be Stop Worrying as a Teenager

Oof…don’t we all just like to worry!?

It’s always about our health, our finances, education or lifestyle. It can even be something as silly as not having a a certain amount of followers on Instagram. Everyone has something that can keep them up at night

Sometimes, worrying about stuff can make us more agile and responsible. If there were no concerns, a lot of people would live carefree and ignorant lives ,so when does it become a problem?

Frankly, it’s normal to be concerned about uncertainty. I mean..no one knows what tomorrow will bring right? but it’s also wise to add that worrying doesn’t help either. This is why I’ve decided to stop worrying too much (and you should too).

Thus, here are five steps you can start practicing today to help ease some of the stress.

1. Breathe (Because a lot of us forget to..)

Breathe? Like don’t we already do that? I mean we wouldn’t be alive if we didn’t so it’s clearly an essential for survival.

I don’t just mean the basic inhalation and exhalation of air we do subconsciously by nature. I’m talking about staying still for a moment and actually feeling the air we are taking in and bringing out from our body. By being conscious of something simple as breathing, you allow your brain to focus on something thereby helping to dissipate some of those tension.

When you find yourself overwhelmed by how many things you have on your mind, it’s time to just sit down, arms around yourself, dissolve everything else and just breathe.

2. Make a list

They say the first step in fixing a problem is identifying the problem.

Like most things, one of my top advice is to write things out- Journaling like some may call it. Pour out your feelings on actual paper and be detailed in every possible way.

For example “I am worried about the test I have in three days. I’m worried because I may have read, but I still lack confidence and assurance and I really can’t afford to fail it.”

You will be surprised at how much weight will leave your shoulder when you write things out.

3. Ask Yourself Why.

While sometimes our pressing needs can be obvious, more than often we tend to worry about things that don’t even matter, so a good way to sort out real problems from the absurd ones is to ask yourself why.

Question each worry you’ve noted down and dive into thoughts why and how this really affects you because this will help you to check out all those irrelevant thoughts that live in our head for free.

4. Prioritise

This is the next best step because after jotting down all your worries and the reason behind them, you’ve probably seen that some of your reasons for being anxious aren’t as reasonable as you thought it was.

The best way to sort your worries based on their priority is to look at the short and long term effects of each of them. If it won’t matter in the long run, chances are it doesn’t matter that much.

If it won’t matter tomorrow, it probably doesn’t matter at ALL!

Being worried about an online class you’re taking that may help you in your career path is definitely more important than being concerned about how many likes and followers you have on your Tiktok or Instagram account (…unless you’re an “influencer” and that’s your major source of income. Otherwise, it’s a totally unnecessary worry. You’ll probably not even have an Tiktok account in the next ten years!).

Just to be clear, I am not saying that’s it’s bad to be concerned about certain things that may not affect your future. Definitely live in the moment, have fun (..and a little worry too), but don’t let minor problems that stem from these extras keep you concerned for so long because they aren’t worth it.

5. Draft a Plausible Cause of Action

Again, be very detailed about this especially if it’s something that is really important. As usual, I’d recommend you write this out so that if you end up feeling overwhelmed at some point, while trying to execute your solution, you will have something to look on to.

For example, if I’m worried about flunking my test and getting bad grades, a good cause of action would be to focus immensely on the topics that give me trouble. I can then increase my study time on those topics or even get a tutor.

I know, I know, it’s easier said than done but at least it’s better than doing nothing.

6. Take Action

This should be the final step to overcoming your worries and anxiety.

Don’t get too hard on yourself though, some solutions to your worries may take days or even years! Some of our worries come from bad habits in our lifestyle that we need to work on and they aren’t things that can be achieved in a few days so give yourself time.

It’s also ok and very much normal if your solutions don’t work at the first try. Sometimes what we think it’s good may not be the best and we simply have to look for another method of approach to solve our problems.

Don’t be afraid to overcome your fears, it won’t be easy but it’ll be worth it and always remember to ask for help if you need it.

Extra (7. Seek Professional Help)

If you’ve tried every else on this list, then I think it’s.time to seek professional help. Go to therapy or consult an expert. I get that not everyone wants to be treated as of they’re “crazy”, however, it’s something to consider if your sanity is at stake.

That’s it for this article, I hope you found these tips useful, do you have any additions or contributions? please leave them in the comment below.

Over To You; HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED WORRY/ANXIETY? IF YOU HAVE, HOW DID YOU OVERCOME IT AND WHAT ARE SOME OF YOUR PERSONAL TIPS IN DOING SO.

(I’ll love to hear your stories and experiences:-))

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Stay Safe, Stay Happy

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